Experience Speaks !

Hi All,

I am Looking for an answer for some questions that are so highly disturbing my mind.

I think only experience can answer it the best and everyone must have gone through the situations where they themselves or their relatives have experienced.


Questions :

1. Is marriage a right decision ?
2. Do you get the same love from your in-laws as you was getting from your parents?
3. You are living for whom after your marriage?
4. Are you sacrificing? If Yes, Is there any one who is sacrificing for you?

I would Appreciate every answer !

Thanks ! 

                                  माँ  मैं जल्दी आ जाउंगी ! 

16 DEC 2012,  

वो जागृती थी, या ज्योति थी ?

निर्भया उसका नाम था या दामिनी उसका काम ?

वो दिल्ली कि निडर बेटी जिसे कोई खबर नहीं थी कि  आने वाले  पल उसके जीवन के सबसे खतरनाक पल साबित होने वाले हैं .

उन पलों ने , न सिर्फ भारत पर पूरी दुनिया के आगे कुछ  ऐसा पेश किया जिससे हर इंसान कि रूह तड़प उठी।

एक माँ जो घर में आस लगाए बैठी थी , कि कब मेरी बेटी घर लौटेगी और कब मैं उसे अपने हाथों से खाना खिलाऊँगी पर जब खबर आई तो उसके  पैरों तले ज़मीं न रही।

वो एक ऐसी घटना जिसने पुरे देश के आगे एक ऐसा उदाहरण रखा, जिसने साबित कर दिया कि ये देश आज भी कितना खोखला  है कि अपनी बेटी कि रक्षा न कर सका।

१६ दिसंबर  २०१२ को हुआ  हादसा जो  खुद में ही एक गवाह था पर फिर भी गवाह ढूंढ़ते -ढूंढ़ते ६ महीने  निकल गए, जिसमे न जाने और कितनी ज्योति, और कितनी निर्भया और कितनी दामिनी  के साथ इतिहास बार- बार दोहराया।

ये राजनीती के खेल में , हरे कागज़ो के नशे ने , इस  देश को इतना अँधा बना दिया कि एक व्यक्ति का मान-सम्मान  खोता ही चला गया।

उम्मीद शब्द  का भारत सरकार, भारत के सुरक्षा कर्मियों से दूर-दूर तक कोई सम्बन्ध नहीं है।

हर नागरिक को खुद ही अपनी सुरक्षा का जिम्मा उठाना पड़ेगा।

क्योंकि भगवन भी उनकी मदद करता है जो खुद कि मदद करता है।
God Help Those,Who help themselves.

सुरक्षित रहो , सशक्त बनो, अपने रक्षक बनो.
Be Safe, Be Strong, Be your Protector.

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                        No Matter What, There's no Comparison  !

Dreams, Support, Sacrifice, Encourage, Prayers, Duties and the list never comes to an end when it comes to My Family.

From The day i was born, My Parents stopped thinking about themselves and start thinking about my life, my future. They gave me everything bestest than bestest.

Long Pleasant period of calm that my family blessed me with.

I made mistakes they forgive me and created an understanding for never iterating them. Their teachings that inspired me at every point of my life.

We shared moments of happiness and sadness. Their way of motivation brings a special enthusiasm that gives me power to convert my birth into a life.

Jim Butcher said "When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching -- they are your family. ”

When i know that something i am going to do is going to harm me, i shared my thoughts with them and instead of putting restrictions on me, they used to say just one thing " Don't worry when we are here, go learn life, learn people and we are always with you, let the fear go out of you forever.

My sister, supported me at my worst and celebrated with me at best. 

My Little Brother,  always been dearest to me, comes to me for advice and studies. though he is youngest but his thoughts, his style is my favorite.

My Favorite time : Evening tea with my family. I never liked having tea on a table. it is always my bed, my blanket and my family sitting making a circle and the tray with biscuits and bhujia in center.

 

 Momos by bhaii the evening, Golgappe, Dahi bhalle(Mumma's Fav.),  Pavbhaji, Chicken that papa used to bring. Hot dog by Mumma, special behen ke hath ki khandvi, Pizza...

and a lot more .....

I will not share all the moments, but when it comes to writing, thoughts never come to an end.

No matter what, there's no comparison and We All love our families.... Aren't we?

Just Helping Myself !!

 Hi Everyone,

 Posting after a very long time. Long time you can say, after one year, i never
 posted after the 2012 haiku month(Month in which new topics are given
 everyday and we have to write some lines following some condition). Well
 I'm going out of the title, but not really, Because i want to write everything
 that is coming into my mind. May be you see some swings...lol.

 I am following my daily routine (9 am to 6 pm), but today is not like every
 another day. There's a person in my office who always try to be very
 over smart. I never took care of such things but today when he showed
 his over smartness to me and that too for a lame reason. I lost my control
 and I wanted to burst out my anger, but damn me, I din't. I stayed quite
 for the moment and that anger inside me had created confusion regarding
 state of my mind. This same thing happened to me some days back but I
 ran away from the situation (for maintaining peace).

But today when the same thing happened, i was unable to configure
what's going on ?????
And this time i cannot run out of the situation, i am still wondering how to
solve this puzzle about me. I am not even able to concentrate what i am
doing and what should i do?

Is it my weakness, that i am unable to express my anger?

I think no, i just need to learn how to handle such dumb and idiotic personalities,
who try to be over smart, but they are not.

I don't know what i am writing. but  this post will surely help me to relax my mind.


P.s - If anyone is able to understand  what i want to say, please suggest me How to Tackle this?